142. There Has to Be More to Life Than This! with Chris McClure the Author of “The Way to Greatness: Discover The Five Continual Choices That Lead To The GREAT Life.”

Author and business coach Chris McClure is Dr. Brad Miller’s guest on Episode 142 of The Beyond Adversity Podcast.
Chris McClure felt like a doormat stepped on by others who seemed to be making decisions that impacted his life and career without real consideration of his thoughts feelings or aspirations.
Chris McClure was facing some profound adverse life conditions in his place of employment (a local church where he was on the pastoral staff)
That’s when he had an A-HA! moment and concluded THERE HAS TO BE MORE TO LIFE THAN THIS!
It was at that moment that Chris took charge of his life and set himself on the path of greatness which is what he and Dr. Brad Miller talk about on Episode 142 of The Beyond Adversity Podcast.
Chris unpacks his story and the five choices he made to choose a path of greatness in his life in the interview. His story became the foundation for the teaching he does in his book “The Way to Greatness: Discover the Five Continual Choices That Lead To The GREAT Life.”
This is an important conversation that will speak to the person who may be thinking of making a pivot in life because you just know that there is more to life than your present circumstances hold and you really want to discover your own path to greatness.
Chris McClure blogs at mcclurecoaching.com and LeadLifeBIG.com.
The Beyond Adversity Podcast is published weekly by Dr. Brad Miller for the purpose of creating a resource for people seeking to navigate beyond adverse life events (depression, debt, divorce, disease, death) and discover your promised life of Peace, Prosperity, and Purpose.
Dr. Brad Miller
March 2021
Transcript
Our guest today is Chris buckler. Chris buckler is
Brad Miller:an author, a coach and a trainer. And he is all about
Brad Miller:helping you to understand there is more to life than you
Brad Miller:thought. In fact, you can have a great life. He is the author of
Brad Miller:the way to greatness, five continuous choices to lead to
Brad Miller:the great life. He blogs at mcclurg coaching.com. And at
Brad Miller:lead life big.com we're glad to have on beyond adversity today,
Brad Miller:Chris buckler, Chris, welcome.
Chris McClure:Thanks so much, Brad. It's awesome to be here.
Brad Miller:It is awesome to have you here. We have something
Brad Miller:in common we both come from a background as pastors and
Brad Miller:churches and, and I've experienced some of the, some of
Brad Miller:the joys and and, and affirmations of that and some of
Brad Miller:the challenges of their life. And that led you to some of the
Brad Miller:things that you're doing now in the business community and
Brad Miller:writing a couple books. And so but I got a feeling that did
Brad Miller:you've got an interesting journey that kind of led you to
Brad Miller:where you're at now, could you just share with us a little bit
Brad Miller:about the pathway that led you may be into ministry and then
Brad Miller:into what you're doing
Chris McClure:now? Absolutely, yeah, it's, it's, uh, I always
Chris McClure:start back when I was 16 years old, when I when somebody asked
Chris McClure:me that question, because, you know, I was, it was right,
Chris McClure:between my junior and senior year of high school, I was
Chris McClure:confused feeling lost that Yeah, I'd grown up in the church, I
Chris McClure:had a great faith, had great Christian influences, you know,
Chris McClure:in my, in my life with my family and everything. But, you know,
Chris McClure:when it came down to career or vocational decisions, I just, I
Chris McClure:had no no direction until I was, you know, almost a senior in
Chris McClure:high school. And it was frustrating to me, because I had
Chris McClure:a lot of friends who knew exactly what they were going to
Chris McClure:do. They knew what college they were gonna go to, they had all
Chris McClure:these things planned out, so to speak. Right? And, and my youth
Chris McClure:pastor came to me, I was very frustrated. And he came to me
Chris McClure:and he said, you know, would you like to go on a mission trip
Chris McClure:with our team.
Chris McClure:And the following summer between my junior and senior year, we're
Chris McClure:going to go to Guyana, South America 17 days. And I didn't
Chris McClure:know where that country was never heard of it. Didn't didn't
Chris McClure:know what we're gonna be doing. All I heard was, I was gonna be
Chris McClure:away from home for 17 days. And I bet that appealed to you.
Chris McClure:Right? And it did it really like, at that moment, I just
Chris McClure:felt like I needed to get away, you know, and, and maybe
Chris McClure:something different would would be good. You know, for me, you
Chris McClure:know, I just didn't know, I was just feeling I said, feeling
Chris McClure:frustrated, stuck, lost, about what to do with my life beyond
Chris McClure:high school. And I felt like that pressure was mounting as I
Chris McClure:was heading towards my junior year, or my senior year, rather.
Chris McClure:And so long story short, that I went to this mission trip, you
Chris McClure:know, we had a great experience there learned a lot. And our
Chris McClure:youth pastor, we'd have these nightly debriefing meetings
Chris McClure:about all the work we're doing and, and he would start asking
Chris McClure:questions, like, you know, it's great that we come here and do
Chris McClure:this for a couple weeks, but what are we going to do we go
Chris McClure:back home? And what is it what is your life look like? You
Chris McClure:know, back home, because this is a short term experience. And,
Chris McClure:and it was in that moment, where I just knew that God was up to
Chris McClure:something, and he was really stirring in my heart and got
Chris McClure:back home and just felt like he, he a guy was saying to me, you
Chris McClure:know, do what Tommy has been doing for you. You know, help
Chris McClure:people understand their purpose, help people understand how they
Chris McClure:can move forward in their own lives. And so, you know, he was
Chris McClure:my youth pastor. So I thought, well, I'll just go be a youth
Chris McClure:pastor. You know, it's kinda like when people have a great
Chris McClure:teacher, and they think, well, I'll just go into teaching,
Chris McClure:because that's been my great experience. For me, it was my
Chris McClure:youth pastor was that person. And so he followed a path of
Chris McClure:your mentor. Yeah, exactly. Just doing Yeah, it works for him,
Chris McClure:it's maybe it'll work for me.
Chris McClure:And so he went to Kentucky Christian university, I went and
Chris McClure:I went and visited the school and decided that was where I was
Chris McClure:going to go. And so I went from all this fog and lack of clarity
Chris McClure:to a clear path forward, I'm gonna go be a youth pastor, I'm
Chris McClure:gonna go to the school, I'm going to, you know, I made all
Chris McClure:these decisions, like it felt like overnight is really an
Chris McClure:maybe, maybe a two or three month period, by the, by the
Chris McClure:beginning of my senior year, I went from total confusion to I
Chris McClure:felt like a total peace because God had given me a plan and a
Chris McClure:way forward for to do that. And so, you know, went to college,
Chris McClure:very motivated at college because of the clarity I had,
Chris McClure:and had some great internships with some other great youth
Chris McClure:pastors and leaders that I still revere as as good friends and
Chris McClure:mentors. And, and that was my journey, you know, and I thought
Chris McClure:that was gonna be my life. And, and so I did that for there was
Chris McClure:a youth pastor about 13 to 15 years, I started to shift roles
Chris McClure:a little bit over time serving three different churches in my
Chris McClure:full time, church work, but shifted more to an associate
Chris McClure:role, and then ultimately to an executive pastor role where I
Chris McClure:was managing a staff and leading teams and developing, you know,
Chris McClure:things organizationally, and once again, it was it felt like
Chris McClure:it was that next stepping stone of where God was leading me and
Chris McClure:and every Thing seemed great until it didn't.
Brad Miller:So thanks for cruising along relatively well
Brad Miller:according to your more or less intended path from like dad's
Brad Miller:high school days on. And then something happened.
Chris McClure:Yeah. When I was just said, I tell people I'm
Chris McClure:like, I really didn't have adversity, Brad until I was in
Chris McClure:my mid 30s. And, and, and I didn't know how to handle it,
Chris McClure:because he very well, you know, because of that. And I felt
Chris McClure:like, all of a sudden, I must be doing something wrong, or God
Chris McClure:must not be happy with something I'm doing or choosing or
Chris McClure:whatever. Because everything else had come easy. I needed one
Chris McClure:internship to get out of college, and I ended up with
Chris McClure:three, I had friends who couldn't get one, you know, to
Chris McClure:figure it out, I kept finding the next step in my journey in
Chris McClure:my church work, you know, doors opened, it seemed obvious,
Chris McClure:smooth transitions, you know, things were just easy for up
Chris McClure:until I was about:Chris McClure:and the hit that mark for me was we had a major leadership,
Chris McClure:conflict or crisis in our church staff where I was serving. And I
Chris McClure:was I found myself in the middle of something that I didn't ask
Chris McClure:for didn't want. And, and it was personal on some levels, you
Chris McClure:know, with people, as we know, in the church, it could get very
Chris McClure:personal because it is about people first and and all of a
Chris McClure:sudden, I was like, on my mind, that easy, smooth road that I
Chris McClure:was on just felt like I got totally disrupted, like boulders
Chris McClure:were coming down the mountainside, and I didn't know
Chris McClure:what to do.
Brad Miller:But apparently, you did something because you ended
Brad Miller:up transitioning out of the parish ministry into the
Brad Miller:business world. So whatever impacted you whatever the
Brad Miller:leadership issues were enough to cause you. A huge pivot in your
Brad Miller:life and career. So tell us a bit about that. That pivot that
Brad Miller:transition, some other process that led you there?
Chris McClure:Yeah, well, even even so. So now now I'm looking
Chris McClure:back like:Chris McClure:can think back where this really started to become a thing for me
Chris McClure:was, I started to feel this pool gravitation to the business
Chris McClure:community. And back then I didn't have any of this
Chris McClure:adversity, I didn't have any of these challenges, everything was
Chris McClure:good at the time for the most part. But and so I didn't
Chris McClure:understand like, I didn't go to college to get a business
Chris McClure:degree, I didn't have a plan to go into the business world or
Chris McClure:anything. And all of a sudden, I felt like this interest, all of
Chris McClure:a sudden, that started to rise up in me toward the business
Chris McClure:community and, and I didn't know what to do with it for many
Chris McClure:years. So it was in it was in the midst of that adversity
Chris McClure:about five or six years later, where I started to really go
Chris McClure:God, what do you want me to do? If I'm not doing what I'm doing
Chris McClure:in my church work? At this local church? What do I do because I
Chris McClure:don't understand my value in the marketplace. I don't know. I
Chris McClure:don't know what kind of industry I would go work in. If I were,
Chris McClure:if I just left to my church job to go find a certain quote
Chris McClure:unquote, regular job in the in the marketplace, right? I didn't
Chris McClure:know my value. I didn't know how to write a resume to get noticed
Chris McClure:all those things. I started interviewing some people that I
Chris McClure:knew about in the community that were business leaders, owners,
Chris McClure:nonprofit leaders, just trying to get a feel for like, Where do
Chris McClure:I fit. And so that was part of my journey was I'm in the middle
Chris McClure:of this crisis, still dealing with it, wanting out not sure
Chris McClure:where to go. So I started looking to other people that
Chris McClure:might give me some clues and some insight on what value Am I
Chris McClure:bring to the table and everything and different
Chris McClure:industries. So ultimately, I joined the john Maxwell team, to
Chris McClure:be a leadership coach, because I thought, you know, I even looked
Chris McClure:into getting my MBA, getting a master's degree in leadership.
Chris McClure:But I thought, you know, I really, I really, my kids were
Chris McClure:young, I didn't really feel like it was the right thing to go
Chris McClure:back to school at that time, it was gonna take a while. And the
Chris McClure:john Maxwell team program looked like a great fit for me, I'd
Chris McClure:been following john and reading his books. And actually, he was
Chris McClure:the first personal growth book author I think I ever read at 19
Chris McClure:years old. And so I'd always been following him and
Chris McClure:appreciated what he had taught and trained and helped me with
Chris McClure:or, you know, over the years. And so that's the route by when
Chris McClure:I joined the team to get training and coaching there. And
Chris McClure:felt like all of a sudden, I better start a business because
Chris McClure:somebody might actually pay me to do what I'm learning how to
Chris McClure:do. But once again, had no plan of starting a business. I didn't
Chris McClure:know what that I thought it was more about building my skill set
Chris McClure:for more of a resume to find a job. And God was saying, No,
Chris McClure:start out start a business, you know, people will pay you to, to
Chris McClure:coach them to do to do training, I was passionate about
Chris McClure:leadership and personal growth, you know, and so, you know, once
Chris McClure:again, lots of I tell people, I felt like my family and I were
Chris McClure:very faithful, you know, throughout our lives, but I felt
Chris McClure:like in:Chris McClure:fan.
Brad Miller:So around that time what so it sounds like you've
Brad Miller:had all these internal and dilemmas going on and all these
Brad Miller:external factors with your church position. Then you have
Brad Miller:leadership being led in the areas of leadership and personal
Brad Miller:development. But I want to ask you, Chris, what were some of
Brad Miller:the actual actions that you had to take some of them even be
Brad Miller:they internal or be they, you know, going in and talking to
Brad Miller:some of the leadership that you have to talk to you to make
Brad Miller:those transitions? Yeah. What were some of the bold actions,
Brad Miller:some of the pivotal moments that you really had to do?
Chris McClure:Yeah, I think first of all, I had to make up
Chris McClure:my mind that I wasn't going to take what I was being dealt
Chris McClure:without responding. You know, I, I was such a, I'm a people
Chris McClure:person. And therefore, I had to guard myself about being a
Chris McClure:people pleaser. And I could have been walked on. And I felt like
Chris McClure:I was being walked on for a while, like a doormat, and I had
Chris McClure:to choose not to let that happen and to take responsibility for
Chris McClure:my life. And it wasn't that I was going to fight back. That
Chris McClure:wasn't my intent. I didn't, I didn't do that. I wasn't going
Chris McClure:to do that. But I also wasn't going to just be abused, or, you
Chris McClure:know, run over either, because I was, you know, I tell people, I
Chris McClure:was even talking to somebody about this today that when I
Chris McClure:take the the Clifton Strength Finders assessment, my number
Chris McClure:one strength is harmony. And my second one is responsibility.
Chris McClure:When those two things can collide, because I want to keep
Chris McClure:people harmoniously together, I want to be at peace with people
Chris McClure:I want to make sure there are there is peace. And then when
Chris McClure:there's not that, you know, that's hard for me, but I also
Chris McClure:am responsible. And I want to make sure that things are done
Chris McClure:well. So for me, I had to take the bold action of saying, okay,
Chris McClure:enough's enough, I'm not going to just let somebody run me over
Chris McClure:because of their agenda, I'm going to take responsibility and
Chris McClure:what I can do on my end, and that's why I started looking for
Chris McClure:alternatives, because I knew I didn't want to stay in that
Chris McClure:situation. I couldn't stay in it for a long, long term, it was
Chris McClure:unhealthy. And so that was bread. That was that first
Chris McClure:decision was the key Domino for me that fell
Brad Miller:to start looking for other options take full
Brad Miller:responsibility to understood that when you're is one thing to
Brad Miller:sacrifice to serve. But it's another thing to be abused, you
Brad Miller:know, right. And to. And, and that's where you have to take
Brad Miller:responsibility, because you can't really serve others. If
Brad Miller:you're being abused and crushed, you have to have some self
Brad Miller:confidence and self effort. Yeah, for affirmation.
Chris McClure:Absolutely. And so for that it was, you know,
Chris McClure:that and then and then the next step was to, to explore options.
Chris McClure:You know, like, once again, I said, I interviewed some folks
Chris McClure:just to kind of get a feel for things, ended up joining the
Chris McClure:Maxwell team to to get the training and the skills and
Chris McClure:under my belt, which ultimately led me to a great community of
Chris McClure:other leaders around the world that I learned about all the
Chris McClure:options that I could have. And so that that action alone opened
Chris McClure:my eyes to beyond my church, world bubble that I've been in,
Chris McClure:which wasn't bad. I mean, you know, I tell people, my
Chris McClure:experience in church ministry was great. And for the most
Chris McClure:part, it was this one issue that I really felt like God allowed
Chris McClure:to happen, so that it kind of kicked me out of the nest of
Chris McClure:this bubble I was in and to expand my vision to, to show me
Chris McClure:that he had a bigger plan for me outside of just my local church
Chris McClure:setting, but that it was that plus, you know, the business
Chris McClure:community, the business world.
Brad Miller:I love that analogy. kick you out of the
Brad Miller:nest.
Unknown:Yeah. You know,
Brad Miller:you don't fly until you get other nest, right.
Chris McClure:Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. So that so I say that and
Chris McClure:then, you know, taking the step of, of even making my business
Chris McClure:official, you know, doing the action of a draw a line in the
Chris McClure:sand and getting the legal stuff taken care of to get my LLC
Chris McClure:started. And your I know, that's a
Brad Miller:huge that's a huge step. Really, because you got to
Brad Miller:put some, you got to put some legal entity on the line some
Brad Miller:money on the line, and yeah, make it official. Yeah.
Chris McClure:And then and then for that, it, you know, after
Chris McClure:that it was okay, how do I get clients? How do I learn this
Chris McClure:business? You know, how do I market and myself? How do I get
Chris McClure:clients to hire me to coach them and to do training and, and that
Chris McClure:was probably the hardest thing for me, you know, after after I
Chris McClure:got through the initial phases of, Okay, I'm going to do this,
Chris McClure:I'm going to go down this path, then it was okay. Now, I've got
Chris McClure:to get serious, I have to do I have to take action. I've never
Chris McClure:sold before. I've never done marketing before, you know, so
Chris McClure:to speak in the in the business community. So I had to learn a
Chris McClure:lot. And I'm still in a learning process. I tell you, no, but but
Chris McClure:I am a whole lot further than I was. But I just know, I still
Chris McClure:have a long way to go. But learning this
Brad Miller:was, for me, that's awesome. So you took took
Brad Miller:responsibility, and you took some action, you set up your
Brad Miller:LLC, and you went to get clients, that kind of thing. So
Brad Miller:let's so those are some of the actions that you took. I want to
Brad Miller:kind of take a twist here with you here for just a second here,
Brad Miller:Chris, and you. You know, you mentioned being from the the
Brad Miller:church world and the faith based world and yet when things go
Brad Miller:south there sometimes people can have a real, a real challenge to
Brad Miller:your faith and I'm not sure if it was the case with you or not.
Brad Miller:I know that it has happened and in the world of faith based
Brad Miller:people when something goes south thing, you know, you have to
Brad Miller:challenge to that. My question to you has to do with behind
Brad Miller:storm, a believer that one has to draw on a power higher than
Brad Miller:themselves in order to make true life transformation. Yeah, in
Brad Miller:what ways in the face of this challenge you may have had to
Brad Miller:your professional faith based life, were you able to call upon
Brad Miller:any kind of a source of power higher than yourself, be it
Brad Miller:spiritual or educational, otherwise, it will help you in
Brad Miller:this transformation as
Chris McClure:well. I tell people all the time that, you
Chris McClure:know, I've heard somebody say that entrepreneurship is one of
Chris McClure:the most personal growth intensive ventures you can have.
Chris McClure:I would also argue that it's one of the greatest faith growing
Chris McClure:ventures you can you can have. And so for me, I find the irony
Chris McClure:is that I am closer to God, I am more committed to God in my
Chris McClure:daily disciplines in my ongoing relationship with the Lord,
Chris McClure:today, because of this journey, than I was even as a pastor in a
Chris McClure:church setting. Now, it wasn't that I was distant from God,
Chris McClure:don't get me wrong. But once again, I've had to learn to lean
Chris McClure:in on God in ways that I didn't have to before because, you
Chris McClure:know, it's that whole thing of when you know, when the
Chris McClure:paychecks coming in, when things are steady, when things are
Chris McClure:good. You know, we can even become dependent on ourselves a
Chris McClure:little too much. And thinking that, you know, we got it all
Chris McClure:down. But when we're really out there having to walk by faith,
Chris McClure:we're tested. And for me, my my faith is like sky. Fire years,
Chris McClure:through this journey I've been on closely, Lord than ever,
Chris McClure:outside of the box of the denominational boundaries, maybe
Chris McClure:that I was raised in or grown up in and served in even, I just
Chris McClure:feel like God has opened my eyes to things to expand my faith and
Chris McClure:understanding of him and his word. So for me, yeah, it's that
Chris McClure:whole pivoting point of you can either go, you know, you can go
Chris McClure:bitter, or you can get better and, and in my room situation it
Chris McClure:was, I really believe that this journey has made me a whole lot
Chris McClure:better personally, but also deeper in my faith and my trust
Chris McClure:and the Lord. That's awesome. That's awesome.
Brad Miller:And yet, we have this bias. People I believe, who
Brad Miller:have go through transformation, especially as they face
Brad Miller:adversity, do make some choices to take some action. And they do
Brad Miller:draw on a higher power, it's got to be something spiritual about
Brad Miller:it. But also, there's an emotional element, there is a
Brad Miller:relationship element that I believe is so important there
Brad Miller:and, and basically, that has to do with how you love and
Brad Miller:experience, love, and share love and how you are empowered by
Brad Miller:powerful relationships. So tell us what role any kind of
Brad Miller:relationships I'm talking about either family, or it could be
Brad Miller:mentorship, it could even be influence of great books and
Brad Miller:things like this. Tell me about how relationships and
Brad Miller:relationship building and accountability as a part of a
Brad Miller:transformation process for you?
Chris McClure:Yeah, well, like I said, when I joined the
Chris McClure:Maxwell team, I found myself in a community of people that I
Chris McClure:would never have engaged with, had I not entered that. And so I
Chris McClure:had some, I felt like the world opened up relationally to some
Chris McClure:amazing people that had similar passions. So that that
Chris McClure:encouraged me and really helped me and knew and kind of found my
Chris McClure:tribe, you know, so to speak, to really connect with. But my good
Chris McClure:friend, Mark, who is later now he's become my writing coach and
Chris McClure:editor for helping me with my books. He felt led by this fear
Chris McClure:one time to just contact me. And we've been great friends for the
Chris McClure:last almost six years, because, you know, he felt prompted to
Chris McClure:reach out to me, and he's 20 years older than me. So he has
Chris McClure:been, he's been a brother to me. He's been a writing coach, and
Chris McClure:you know, kind of an author coach to help me through my book
Chris McClure:product processes. But he's also been a mentor, because he's gone
Chris McClure:through some significantly hard things in his own ministry
Chris McClure:career as a church planter and pastor himself over 30 some
Chris McClure:years. And he helped me navigate the challenges I was facing. And
Chris McClure:he had been there done that had the T shirt, so to speak. So he
Chris McClure:was able to help me see where I was better understanding that.
Chris McClure:So his, his friendship, his mentorship was huge. Yeah, just,
Chris McClure:you know, I'm thankful that I have a great family. And so I've
Chris McClure:had family support, you know, I meet a lot of people who are
Chris McClure:trying to build businesses and do the entrepreneurial thing and
Chris McClure:they don't have family support. They don't they have more
Chris McClure:adversity there than because people don't necessarily believe
Chris McClure:in them or they, they don't think that what they're doing is
Chris McClure:valuable, or they don't understand it, whatever it may
Chris McClure:be. I haven't run into that. So I've had I've had this great
Chris McClure:support system around me, my friends and family, my church
Chris McClure:that I was serving, I mean, we're still a part of that. That
Chris McClure:church as a family and people are excited, you know, they read
Chris McClure:my first book launch there'll be at my next book launch they
Chris McClure:they've been cheering me on when I when I said I was leaving,
Chris McClure:officially to go into my business full time. You know, I
Chris McClure:left with excitement and blessing on you know, from them.
Chris McClure:And other people are asking me how how things are going all the
Chris McClure:time, you know, they're really they're in my corner. So. So I
Chris McClure:think that God plays p key people in my path at the right
Chris McClure:time that I needed in this new season that I was navigating.
Chris McClure:And so that was huge for me because it can be a lonely
Chris McClure:journey, you know?
Brad Miller:Well, that's encouraging you Well, you I
Brad Miller:think you need a balance and transform. It's transformative
Brad Miller:relationships of encouragement and accountability and some
Brad Miller:coaching occasional kick in the rear and sometimes a pat in the
Brad Miller:back, you know, all that kind of thing. And certainly, and you
Brad Miller:certainly need that. And I believe the healthiest ways that
Brad Miller:happens is when you do have accountability and relationships
Brad Miller:on different levels, family, spouse, church, mentorship, all
Brad Miller:that type of thing. Absolutely. And so now you're looking to
Brad Miller:offer some of that to some others, aren't you? Absolutely.
Brad Miller:So yeah, that's,
Chris McClure:that's what I tell people, I feel like I get
Chris McClure:this, I'm blessed. Because I get to be this guide, or this
Chris McClure:partner with people in my coaching with them to help them
Chris McClure:grow, to help them navigate their own challenges to help
Chris McClure:them even think through their own opportunities. I had a ahead
Chris McClure:of friend call me this the other night, I was watching my son
Chris McClure:play soccer, and he's making this this friend of mine is
Chris McClure:making a career change decision and just asked him to call me
Chris McClure:and someone beside the soccer sideline, talking to this guy,
Chris McClure:you know about some things he wants to just kind of run by me
Chris McClure:and, and I just felt like I had this moment is going, you know,
Chris McClure:I love what I get to do. And that was just a friend
Chris McClure:conversation. But people, you know, for professional side of
Chris McClure:things do pay me for similar conversations and, and training
Chris McClure:and helping them navigate these things. And so, for me, there's
Chris McClure:the business side of it, but but it's bigger than that. It's
Chris McClure:definitely a calling. It's one of those things where, you know,
Chris McClure:they say, Fine, what you would do for free and and, you know,
Chris McClure:and find a way to get paid for, you know, I feel like I'm living
Chris McClure:that, you know,
Brad Miller:cause there's more, there's more to life than what
Brad Miller:we sometimes feel like it should be there. It's an opportunity
Brad Miller:for me to be great. Yeah. So I'd like you to, let's get into your
Brad Miller:book a little bit about the way to greatness, you talk about
Brad Miller:five choices, yeah, that people can make. And so tell us a bit
Brad Miller:about your book, and also in terms of how you can be offer
Brad Miller:this as a kind of a coaching. encouragement to some of our
Brad Miller:listeners.
Chris McClure:Sure, sure. So So I even say this in my book, but
Chris McClure:I've always said I'm a simple guy, I learned in simple ways I
Chris McClure:like to teach simply, I like to help people in simple ways. And
Chris McClure:so the way to greatness is really about, it's got five
Chris McClure:sections based on these five choices that we need to
Chris McClure:continually make. And within each of those five choices, I
Chris McClure:have a five step training process or coaching process that
Chris McClure:I walk people through to help them really make progress in
Chris McClure:each of these areas. And so the five choices are one, the first
Chris McClure:one is build your God course the faith component of your life,
Chris McClure:it's like the core of your body. You know, when you go to the
Chris McClure:gym, you got to strengthen your abs and your back everything to
Chris McClure:make your body strong. So I call it build your God core, your
Chris McClure:faith core, basically. And then I have protect your
Chris McClure:relationships. You know, I believe that God wants us to
Chris McClure:have healthy relationships. And to do that, in order to have
Chris McClure:them, we have to protect them, we have to do the work to
Chris McClure:protect them. The third choice is to renew your mind, you know,
Chris McClure:the apostle Paul said, Romans 12, you know, that we need to
Chris McClure:transform our minds to be renewed so that we can
Chris McClure:understand God's will for our lives. The fourth choice is to
Chris McClure:manage your resources, it's the stewardship component, I mostly
Chris McClure:talk about money in the book, because that's where most people
Chris McClure:are, you know, attach that to, but you can certainly expand
Chris McClure:that to health, another, you know, parts of our lives as
Chris McClure:well. And then the fifth choice is to, to manage your time, you
Chris McClure:know, because it's the one non renewable resource we have. And
Chris McClure:a lot of us squander our time. We have lots of distractions in
Chris McClure:the world today that we have to fight off every day. And so
Chris McClure:those are the five choices. And so I walk readers through and my
Chris McClure:clients through I have a course I have a coaching program that I
Chris McClure:help people through. Where I'm the point of the way to great is
Chris McClure:'s really found based on john:Chris McClure:when Jesus says that we have this enemy in Satan, the devil
Chris McClure:comes to steal, kill and destroy, but Jesus said, I've
Chris McClure:come to give you life to the fool, and some translations a
Chris McClure:rich, satisfying or abundant life. And so I call it the great
Chris McClure:life. And it's, you know, that integrate is an acronym that God
Chris McClure:gave me to kind of frame this but but that's what I believe
Chris McClure:God wants us to have. And I don't see many people
Chris McClure:experiencing that.
Brad Miller:Yeah. When we're to experience that you've got to do
Brad Miller:the things you were talking about, make a decision to do it
Brad Miller:and then be, you know, drop On your spiritual life and the
Brad Miller:relationships, in order to have the great life, you also have to
Brad Miller:have application of it. No, you have to implement it into your
Brad Miller:life. And I'd like for you to talk a little bit about how you
Brad Miller:either you're yourself or how you can advocate for
Brad Miller:disciplines, habits, practices that maybe come out of your
Brad Miller:book, or out of your experience that people can implement some
Brad Miller:of the things you're teaching here. Sure.
Chris McClure:So my, my chapters aren't called chapters,
Chris McClure:they're called action steps. So if that tells you anything, I'm
Chris McClure:an action oriented guy. A lot of people have called me to get it
Chris McClure:done guy, I'm the I'm the action taker, I'm an implementer, I
Chris McClure:love to take action. And even before we started, you know, our
Chris McClure:recording area I was talking about it, I have to focus more
Chris McClure:on the strategy a lot of time on it, be diligent about that,
Chris McClure:because I can just jump into action. So I want to what what
Chris McClure:the book does is give you a, what I call a clear, simple
Chris McClure:repeatable action plan, that you can go over a time and time
Chris McClure:again. So I didn't write this book as what as a as a book that
Chris McClure:you would read once put down and never look at, again, it's more
Chris McClure:of a guide book with clear action steps to take and review
Chris McClure:them, you know, because here's the thing I kind of a mountain
Chris McClure:metaphor has come into my mind through this process of, you
Chris McClure:know, it's like I heard somebody say, one time, you know, when
Chris McClure:you're climbing a mountain towards a goal, what happens is
Chris McClure:you get to the top of that mountain, and all of a sudden,
Chris McClure:you can see other mountains that you can climb. And so I look at
Chris McClure:each of these five choices as almost like five mountains that
Chris McClure:you're climbing. And so if I'm climbing in my faith, I'm
Chris McClure:growing, I'm growing, I'm growing, I get to the peak of
Chris McClure:what I thought was the highest level, I could go so to speak.
Chris McClure:But now I realize I can go further, right, or there's
Chris McClure:another another next step or another, you know, destination
Chris McClure:out there. Same thing with our relationships, our mindset, our
Chris McClure:stewardship, and our time. It's so so it's very action oriented,
Chris McClure:because I believe that, you know, I'm not going to stop
Chris McClure:growing till the day I die. You know, I want to keep growing. I
Chris McClure:want to keep improving. I want to get better every day.
Brad Miller:Go on if it's 1% go on to perfection is kind of the
Brad Miller:tradition I come from get better every day. Perfection comes in
Brad Miller:heaven. That's, that's awesome. That's awesome, man. Well,
Brad Miller:let's, let's try to implement this now directly to our
Brad Miller:listeners. What I mean by that is, you mentioned a minute ago,
Brad Miller:Chris about how a person who called you while you're at the
Brad Miller:soccer your son's soccer game and, and how you were able to
Brad Miller:share a little bit with him. But I'd like to hear a little bit
Brad Miller:about maybe, perhaps what you share with this person. But I
Brad Miller:this our podcast, beyond adversity is aimed to help
Brad Miller:people navigate those times, when they are have those pivotal
Brad Miller:moments, those defining moments. So I just want you to kind of
Brad Miller:put yourself in the place of, of a young man, young father, who
Brad Miller:maybe haven't maybe out of the COVID crisis, maybe some
Brad Miller:situation has happened, the work or in the family, or whatever
Brad Miller:they are making some. So defining moments before them.
Brad Miller:What kind of what would you kind of things would you share to
Brad Miller:that person?
Chris McClure:Yeah, absolutely. So I think a lot of it is I
Chris McClure:think about it from like, going on a trip, you know, when you
Chris McClure:when you're getting ready to plug in your GPS coordinates,
Chris McClure:right on a trip, you have to know your end destination where
Chris McClure:you want to go. And so a lot of it where I tell people is, you
Chris McClure:know, really, there's an exercise to talk about my book
Chris McClure:about looking out five years, and what he What would you like
Chris McClure:to see your life looking like five years from now? And, you
Chris McClure:know, who are you with? What are you doing? What are the sights,
Chris McClure:the smells, the sounds, I mean, just get into that moment of
Chris McClure:that vision of what five years can look like, and then start to
Chris McClure:backtrack and go Okay, well, to get there. What did I have to
Chris McClure:do? To get there? What were what was what I had to do in year
Chris McClure:1234, you know, up to year five? Because I think a lot of
Brad Miller:reverse engineering type of thing.
Chris McClure:Yeah. Yeah. Because it's, well, Stephen
Chris McClure:Covey, you know, always said, What beginning with the end in
Chris McClure:mind, yes, you know, and so if you, if we, if I use the
Chris McClure:analogy, that what the GPS thing, if you don't plug in the
Chris McClure:right destination, it'll take you somewhere you can, you can
Chris McClure:start your GPS, and it'll show you that you're going places,
Chris McClure:but it's not necessarily going to take you to where you
Chris McClure:ultimately want to end up. And so you need to determine your
Chris McClure:destination, you know, where do you want to go? And then you
Chris McClure:need to start taking action towards getting there. And so,
Chris McClure:the first key A lot of times, I think people are reacting,
Chris McClure:especially in moments of adversity, and I know I found
Chris McClure:myself there was, you know, I was just trying to get out or
Chris McClure:run away even for a moment. And God had to kind of slow me down
Chris McClure:and say, okay, but what is the bigger picture here? You know,
Chris McClure:and and asking the question, why what you know, what did you know
Chris McClure:Simon Sinek kind of made it, you know, very popular with start
Chris McClure:with why, you know, in his book A few years ago, but right you
Chris McClure:know, digging deeper and I Dennis with clients, you know,
Chris McClure:I'll ask him why three to five times just to get down to more
Chris McClure:the core of why they say they want to accomplish something or
Chris McClure:do something or go somewhere, whatever. So I think a lot of it
Chris McClure:is that beginning with you in mind asking why you want to get
Chris McClure:there to get to your core, you know, purpose in life and your
Chris McClure:core calling. And then once again, defining what are the
Chris McClure:steps I need to take. And I think that was one of the things
Chris McClure:for me. I heard I heard a video by john Maxwell, when I was in
Chris McClure:that process of making a decision about joining the
Chris McClure:Maxwell team, and what am I gonna do? And he said something
Chris McClure:that really stuck with me and it was, you know, in his case, he
Chris McClure:said, 10 years from now, he said, you know, where do you
Chris McClure:wanna be 10 years from now, but but one of the question that
Chris McClure:really got me was, Well, what do you need to do in the next 30
Chris McClure:days? To start down that path?
Brad Miller:What's your next steps? Right?
Chris McClure:Yeah. And so for me, I think that's where a lot
Chris McClure:of people, you know, whatever, you know, area of law, and I
Chris McClure:chose these, you know, I feel like God gave me these choices.
Chris McClure:First of all, because there are five areas that people struggle
Chris McClure:with regularly. But, but each of these it's kind of same thing.
Chris McClure:Where do you want to go? What, what do you want your fate to
Chris McClure:look like? What do you want your relationships look like? What do
Chris McClure:you how do you want to be thinking about life? And you
Chris McClure:know, how do you want your money and finances to look like and
Chris McClure:what do you want your time freedom, your lifestyle to look
Chris McClure:like?
Brad Miller:Do you want to be great?
Chris McClure:Yeah, right? And what does great look like today
Chris McClure:to you? Because here's the thing, what that vision of
Chris McClure:greatness looks like five years from now, when I get there, I'm
Chris McClure:going to have a new expanded vision of what greatness looks
Chris McClure:like from there. Right? And so it's this it continually grows,
Chris McClure:and it continually expands when you when you really do that
Chris McClure:exercise. So I think that's a lot of it is slowing down
Chris McClure:journaling, thinking, praying, you know, talking to some
Chris McClure:trusted advisors, mentors, family members that, you know,
Chris McClure:kind of mapping out your life and going okay, here's where
Chris McClure:I've been, here's my situation, where do I, if, if today was day
Chris McClure:one, as every day really is, What do I want? The next days to
Chris McClure:look like? What do I do next months and years look like?
Brad Miller:Perhaps a part of that process is picking up the
Brad Miller:way to greatness, discover the five continual choices that lead
Brad Miller:to the great life, and maybe getting connected with crisper
Brad Miller:clearer. So how can people do that if they want to get
Brad Miller:connected and learn more about you and what you have to?
Chris McClure:Well, specifically to this book, they
Chris McClure:can actually Bradley can go get a free copy of the book The way
Chris McClure:to greatness, calm and just pay a small shipping handling fee,
Chris McClure:and I'll send it out to them right away. So I have that offer
Chris McClure:out there. By my website where you know, more details. I
Chris McClure:actually had my own podcast, I've kind of paused it for a
Chris McClure:while. But it's lead life big calm. And so I have podcast
Chris McClure:episodes there I've blog articles there. That's where
Chris McClure:kind of my resource hub for the way to greatness, you know,
Chris McClure:where it all started, so to speak. So there's there's that
Chris McClure:and then through there, they can connect with me as well. You
Chris McClure:know, I also have a clerk coaching calm, which is more my
Chris McClure:executive leadership coaching, business side of things that I
Chris McClure:that I have over there. So I work with entrepreneurs and
Chris McClure:executives and, and even with them, you know, I'm trying to
Chris McClure:help them with Yes, leadership, but really, it's about their
Chris McClure:life I want I want people that are high level leaders to be
Chris McClure:able to have the kind of life that they're really working so
Chris McClure:hard for a lot of times they're not because they're so busy in
Chris McClure:the business that they're not, you know, growing in these core
Chris McClure:components of life,
Brad Miller:so help help people discover that the indeed there
Brad Miller:is more to life than this. Absolutely. Yeah. So want to
Brad Miller:thank you for being with us. His name is Chris mclr. His book is
Brad Miller:the way to greatness. Discover the five continuous choices that
Brad Miller:lead to the great life. We thank Chris buckler for being our
Brad Miller:guest today on the beyond the diversity podcast.